Posted September 23, 2013on:
It is cliché to say that no two people are alike. But it is a fact that no two people will see things the same or be in complete agreement about everything.
Differences are natural. So it is natural when two people have conflicting interests. The challenging part is how both of you handle the situation.
The immature approach is to threaten, manipulate, scream, kick, or throw things around. Does this work well? No.
The mature approach is to speak clearly and effectively from the soul. At the same time, one communicates with caring and patience. The result is a more effective and balanced resolution. And that facilitates better relations.