Posted December 17, 2015on:
Everyone and everything develops and grows, and this happens within certain boundaries. It is not possible to extend anything without limits. Containment is necessary for healthy progress.
So it is essential to know what your boundaries are and to do this with yourself as well as with other people. Be aware of how much time/energy/money you can logically expend on anything or anyone.
With this understanding, you can set reasonable and workable parameters that allow you to achieve and maintain a strong sense of well-being.